You can look up the location of SJ1 in the Eagle project files that are provided by Sparkfun). For example, you can import them into KiCad (Free and Open Source), which opens a PCB and a Schematic editor.
To locate SJ1 you can simply click on it in the Schematic editor such that it's highlighted in the PBC editor, as well. For better overview, you may want to hide all the layers besides the foreground one (e.g. 'F.Cu') and click View/Zoom-to-Fit:
-> That means SJ1 is located on the front of the board, right of pin 9 (ground), i.e. it's highlighted in a lighter red. For comparison, I included an image (Sparkfun, CC BY 2.0) of the front, where you can see that SJ1 is marked by a white rectangle (painted on the board) and that it's closed, by default by a solder blob, which can be de-soldered (e.g. using solder wick and a bit of flux).
NB: To enable power isolation (i.e. such that the MCU can be directly powered without also powering the power-on LED and one side of the on-board LDO, e.g. in order to save power), you have to open SJ1.
Thus, the pads on the back of the board, you marked in an image you included in the question, are something different. In KiCad you can look them up as well: that means switch to the back layer (e.g. 'B.Cu') and click on the pads such that the related parts are highlighted in the schematic editor: